What are a few good ETF’s/mutual funds that I could invest in as a 35 year old that makes a about $80k a year

I am curious what everyone’s thoughts are on this? I am 35 and would like to retire but 55/60. I don’t have a lot of debt, some student loans, car loan, mortgage. No credit card debt!

I am married with a kiddo so I’d also like to know who’s the bests funds for me and my wife to save together would be and start a college fund for my kiddo. Thanks in advance!